I’m weeping because I thought my husband was joking. We got married two years ago, and when he first met me, he asked me how many guys I had dated, and I said two. He’s the third person I’ve been with, but the truth is, I’ve dated far more than that and had several flings.
I was once a prostitute and I used to sleep with more than four guys a day when market was good. We dated for 26 months and got married, and then everything started to unravel. Now he has discovered eight of them. He asked me again, and I don’t know how to tell him that it’s more than 500. I can’t even remember the exact figure. He warned me to tell him the truth, and said that if he discovers more, he will file for a divorce. We have a child together already.
He told me all about himself too. He said he had dated four girls and had flings with about nine girls (one night stands). He just wants me to tell him the figures, even if it’s not an exact number; he came back this evening and told me he had contacted his lawyer for a divorce. I should get ready.
He gave me a list of men I’ve dated in the past – 18 of them – and I’m so ashamed of myself. I don’t even know how to approach him. He doesn’t even know that 18 is a small number compared to the truth he’s yet to uncover. He promised he won’t use it against me, but I don’t know if I can trust him or not. Should I just tell him that I was once into prostitution and I have slept with thousands of men? Can a man handle this kind of information without using it against me? If I don’t tell him the truth, he will divorce me.
Source: Kofi Noel
