If you see these Five signs then it means your Partner is seeing someone else

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Love is that feeling of finally meeting someone who truly understands you, someone who provides a new sense of validation, someone who perceive life the way you do, a true soul mate. It’s a wonderful feeling of bonding. Then it’s gradually built on companionship, sharing of mutual concern, self disclosure and intimacy. However, some things remaining constant no matter how much we might want to cover them up. If your relationship is not working, even though parts of it may be great, it is much better to find out whether you are been cheated on or not. The signs of cheating look different in every relationship, of course, but there are some common threads that you can look for.

1. Secrecy

A cheating partner will always try to cover his or her tracks up. They tend to use their phones and laptops more frequently than before and do not leave them as if their lives depend on them. If there was no password on their phones and laptop before, and now they do, that’s not a good sign. They prevent you from reading their texts, and possibly deletes them on a daily basis. Another sign your partner is cheating is that they feel insecure going out with you. They will try to fabricate stories why they can not go out with you. They afraid they’ll meet your rivals at a restaurant or at a mall.

2. Phones always busy or out of reach.

If your partner is cheating on you, they are less likely to answer your calls and respond to your texts. Anytime you call to check on them they are always on call or their lines are dead. You may hear legitimate-sounding excuses like i was on business call, I was driving, i was in a “dead zone” and didn’t know you were trying to get in touch.

3. They become  abusive.

They can become very abusive both physically and emotionally. He or she can play a number of mind games that relegate their love one to the land of the stupid. Cheaters make remarks about how dumb, clumsy, or stupid the other partner is. They criticize the way you dress or behave putting the other person under emotional abuse. One way they do this is to push the blame onto you. They tell themselves that you don’t look the way you did when they married you, or you’re not adventurous enough in the bedroom, or you don’t appreciate all the wonderful things they do for you, so they deserve to have a little fun elsewhere. Anytime a relationship includes any degree of abuse get out!

4. In the bedroom

Another noticeable trait is less, or more, or different sex positions in your relationship. Both decreased and increased levels of sexual activity in your relationship can be a sign of infidelity. Less sex occurs because your partner is focused on someone else; more sex occurs because they are trying to cover that up. Another possible sign of cheating is that the sex you and your partner are having feels less emotionally connected. They may introduce new techniques and activities into your sex life. As much as you might enjoy that, it’s possible that they are learning new tricks outside of your relationship.

5. Never having conversations about infidelity.

If your partner is cheating on you, be absolutely sure it is the last thing in the world that they want talk about. So when you introduce this topic in your conversation, they may try to deflect or avoid the conversation totally. In short, your partner will do everything possible to steer you onto another topic, or they will shift the blame for what they are doing towards you. You will hear comments like “ If you trusted me a little more, maybe things would be better between us.” Do not accept your partner’s assertion that you are at fault.

We all deserve better in our relationship. Live long enjoy life to the fullest.