I Apologized To My Husband’s Sidechick To Save My Marriage – Woman Shares Her Sad Story

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Suzan is a mother of three and a family lawyer shares how her husband told her to apologise to his sidekick if she actually wants to save her marriage. According to Suzan, she met her first boyfriend at the age of 20, some few months later she found out that she was pregnant for her boyfriend. The woman then informed her parents about the pregnancy, it was not easy at first because Susan was in her first year at the University.

But they took care of her and after birth, she left her baby with her cousin and went back to school. In her final year at the university, she entered into another relationship with her child’s father best friend. The man helped her a lot after she gave birth so they were close friends. One year later, Susan told her boyfriend to let them get married because she is a Christian so she don’t want to continued having affair without marriage. The woman said her family was in support with their relationship, he accepted her decision and they got married in a grand style. After the wedding, Susan’s husband told her not to serve God again, he even told her either she stays in the marriage or serve God. The woman was part of the praises and worship team at her church but he told her to stop. Susan said she noticed some of his quick tempers before they even get married but never take them seriously.

Three months after their marriage, the husband told her to leave his house because he saw her greeting her schoolmates. When she gave birth and the child was six months old, the man told her to leave his house but Susan knows that she has not offended him. This made her ask the man why he was saying that. He boldly told the woman that he only wanted a child but not to get married, he again told her that getting married was the biggest mistake he has ever made.

Susan told her parents about what was happening but they advised her to stay in her marriage. Afterwards, he sacked her in the night, she has locked herself in the washroom till the next morning. Afterwards, he started abusing her verbally, the man told her she was ugly. The woman even admitted that she was truly ugly, then the next thing was he hates her voice. Susan has to always hide to even make a call whenever her husband is in the house.

She got pregnant again but this time her husband never cared for her till she gave birth. When she was four months pregnant of her third child, she found out that her husband was having affair with another woman, Susan called her to stay away from her husband. In the middle of the road, the man told her to apologise to his sidechick if she wants to save her marriage. She did as she was ordered because of her children.

One day the woman was sent out of the house because she was late from work. At that time, her child was only nine months old, but two weeks later he came for her, this time the abuse became worse, he even threatened to kill her. Five years later the woman couldn’t continue again with the marriage so she filed for a divorce.

source: Ccobbina