Trust is a cornerstone in any relationship, especially when it comes to fidelity. But how can you tell if a man is truly trustworthy?
Well, as Tina Fey, founder of the Love Connection blog and a seasoned relationship expert, I’ve seen certain patterns emerge over time.
There are definite types of men that exhibit behaviors that suggest they are more likely to be faithful.
In this piece, I’m going to reveal the eight types of men you can always trust to be faithful. This isn’t about making sweeping generalizations, but about identifying those traits that hint at a deeper commitment.
So let’s dive in and find out who these loyal fellas are.
1) The family man
In my years as a relationship expert, I’ve noticed that men who are deeply connected to their families often exhibit a high level of faithfulness in their romantic relationships.
Family-oriented men demonstrate a strong commitment to the people they love. They have learned the value of loyalty, trust, and constancy through their family bonds.
Think about it. If a man is consistently reliable and dedicated to his family, it’s a good bet he’ll apply those same principles to a romantic relationship.
Of course, being a family man doesn’t guarantee faithfulness. But it’s certainly a positive sign.
When you’re navigating the dating scene, keep an eye out for those men who clearly value their family ties. They might just be the ones you can trust to stay true.
2) The communicator
Another type of man who tends to be faithful is one who values open and honest communication.
In my personal experience, I’ve found that men who communicate effectively are often more in tune with their emotions and are less likely to resort to secretive or dishonest behaviors.
As the legendary Maya Angelou once said, “Courage is the most important of all the virtues because without courage, you can’t practice any other virtue consistently.”
This quote resonates deeply with me as it highlights the importance of courage in expressing feelings and thoughts openly with your partner- a key factor in maintaining a faithful relationship.
Men who aren’t afraid to express their feelings, share their thoughts, or discuss difficult topics are showing courage.
This is a strong indicator that they are more likely to be trustworthy and faithful in a relationship.
Remember, open communication fosters trust, and trust is the bedrock of fidelity.
3) The self-aware man
Now, this is a type of man I discuss extensively in my book, Breaking The Attachment: How To Overcome Codependency in Your Relationship.
A man who is self-aware understands his own feelings, motivations, and behaviors.
He is in tune with his needs and desires and is less likely to seek fulfillment through dishonest behavior or infidelity.
I’ve found that these self-aware men are more likely to be faithful because they can recognize when they are feeling restless or discontented.
Rather than acting out through infidelity, they’re more inclined to address the root of their feelings and work through them.
In my book, I delve deeper into the importance of self-awareness in maintaining a healthy, faithful relationship.
It’s an essential read for anyone looking to understand the dynamics of codependency and how to foster lasting trust in a relationship.
Keep an eye out for these self-aware men. They have worked hard to understand themselves and are more likely to bring that same attentiveness to their relationships.
4) The flirtatious man
Now, this one might seem counterintuitive, but bear with me. A flirtatious man can, in fact, be among those you can trust to be faithful.
It’s all about understanding the difference between harmless flirting and crossing boundaries.
Some men are simply more outgoing and charismatic, and this often translates into a flirtatious personality.
A man who respects boundaries knows where to draw the line. He understands that flirting is not the same as showing romantic interest or intention.
In my experience, flirtatious men who respect these boundaries are often comfortable in their own skin and secure in their relationships.
They don’t feel the need to seek validation or emotional fulfillment elsewhere.
Don’t write off the flirtatious man just yet. If he respects boundaries and is open about his behavior, he might just be one of the faithful ones.
5) The patient man
Patience, as they say, is truly a virtue. And in my experience, men who exhibit a high level of patience are often more likely to be faithful.
Being patient means being able to wait, to understand, and to give space when it’s needed.
In a relationship, it can translate into the ability to work through issues and obstacles without resorting to rash decisions or behavior.
I’ve personally seen many relationships thrive because of a partner’s patience.
These men are willing to take the time to understand their partner’s point of view, to communicate effectively, and to let the relationship grow organically without rushing things.
A patient man understands that all good things take time. And this understanding often leads him to be more committed and faithful in a relationship.
Keep an eye out for these gems. They truly know the value of waiting for something worthwhile.
6) The man who has made mistakes
Let’s get real for a moment. No one is perfect, and we all make mistakes. Even men who have been unfaithful in the past can become some of the most devoted partners.
I’ve encountered men who have made serious mistakes, acknowledged them, and worked hard to grow from the experience. They’ve learned the hard way about the pain and damage that infidelity can cause.
These men often develop a deep understanding of the importance of trust and loyalty in a relationship.
They’ve seen the consequences of their actions and are determined not to repeat their past mistakes.
Remember: People can change, and past mistakes do not necessarily dictate future behavior.
In fact, sometimes it’s those who have faltered who end up being the most faithful. Because they know exactly what’s at stake.
7) The appreciative man
As Oprah Winfrey wisely said, “Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough.”
This quote strikes a chord with me, especially in the context of relationships.
A man who consistently shows appreciation for his partner, for the relationship, and for the little things in life is more likely to stay faithful.
An appreciative man understands the value of what he has. He doesn’t take his partner for granted and is aware that a good relationship is something to be cherished.
I’ve noticed that men who express gratitude often are more satisfied in their relationships. They’re less likely to be looking elsewhere because they truly value what’s already in front of them.
Look out for the men who say ‘thank you’ and mean it. They are often the ones who understand the worth of a faithful relationship.
8) The man who has been hurt
Now, this might be hard to hear, but it’s the raw truth: Men who have experienced the pain of being cheated on are often more likely to be faithful.
These men know firsthand the devastating impact of betrayal. They understand the deep emotional scars that infidelity can leave behind.
And they would never want to inflict that kind of pain on someone they care about.
I’ve met many men who have been on the receiving end of infidelity.
They often express a strong commitment to being faithful, not only out of respect for their partner, but also out of a deep personal desire not to become the person who hurt them.
A man who has been hurt knows the value of a faithful relationship.
He’s felt the sting of betrayal and has no intention of causing that pain to someone else. It’s a hard-earned lesson, but one that often results in steadfast loyalty.
Final thoughts
When it comes to faithfulness, it’s important to remember that each individual is unique.
However, these types of men I’ve shared with you tend to exhibit traits that suggest a higher likelihood of loyalty.
Keep in mind that trust is a two-way street. As much as we want to find faithful partners, we must also strive to be trustworthy ourselves.
Content by : Tina Fey
